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OldSkoolTarHeel: Dad in the Spotlight, take two!!!

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So here he is again.  Offering up his soul to the DHO gods to let his sins be known for a second time.  Come Rob.  Tell us how the single life is, going to porn conventions and such.  It must be so hard.  :lol

 

Monday-Tell us about yourself and how you found us

Tuesday-Tell us about your family

Wednesday-Tell us about all your job and your hobbies

Thursday-Tell us about where you have been and where you want to go

Friday-Other dads from the site question the dad in the spotlight, ask them a question and they answer it(within reason)

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First off I'm glad to see how many of you are excited to read about me again as you all were to read about Huddled again. It's all very flattering.

 

Anyway, I'm still Rob, but now I'm a 30 year old divorced father of one, which is a change from last time as I was a 28 year old married father of two the last time I did this. Many of you know my story as to how all that happened, but here's a brief synopsis. Shortly after my son was born, my, now, ex-wife cheated on me with this dude. I didn't know about it for a while, and I had never thought it would happen, or could again, so I forgave her and we moved along. Well, about a year and a half after Spencer was born, the ex got pregnant again, which was, unexpected, to say the least.

 

Well, the ex swears up and down that the child is mine, so I provide for her while she is pregnant, as she is prone to extremely rough pregnancies. Anyway, Charlotte is born, and all is good with the world. Fast forward almost a year. Jenn and I had been going through some problems and finally decided that a divorce was imminent. That was right around August 1, 2011. At this point I was for the divorce, but still had an inkling that we might get through this rough patch and fix things up. Fast forward about two weeks. On August 18, 2011 the ex and I get into an argument. I hang up on her. She then proceeds to text me, and I quote: "btw charlotte's nick's. we had a dna test done in NY." I remember the date vividly as it is precisely two days before Charlotte's first birthday. I remember the words used vividly as I took a screenshot of the text as I knew nobody would believe me when I told them.

 

So yeah, my world came crashing down on me in an instant, all from a text message. After I learned of that little tidbit, the door to reconciliation was slammed shut. Our divorce has now been officially over for about 1.5 years.

 

Anyway, that is the MAJOR change in my life and why I volunteered to do this again. I'll get more into the other changes as the week goes by.

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Wow man.  That is harsh, but I think it is probably best being so early in the child's life before you were really, really attached.  Sometimes, you unfortunately don't find out what kind of person someone is until after you live with them a few years.  Then they finally drop the charade they have been running for years and you see their true colors.  Good riddance for you.  Difficult for sure, but I think your life will end up better without her.

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I was attached to Charlotte as soon as I found out Jenn was pregnant. But anyway, I don't see her as much as I used to, but I don't treat her any differently from before I knew. None of this crap was her fault.

 

Also, I forgot to mention how I found the site. I'm an OG here as I knew Joey and Damien from the place that shall not be named and for some reason they invited me along with the cool kids.

 

 

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It seems you and me are the only ones that care about me. And we both know how much you actually care about me.

 

AWESOME!!!

 

You know I care buddy, meetings all morning !!  :2thumbs

 

I think i may have heard a little of your story before, but not sure, but reading this now. . . . man that must have been brutal on you !! I was thinking if that would have happened to me and, i don't know man ?? I woulda been crushed !! and then thinking all a long the second kid is yours then "oh, btw, it's not" FRACK !!!!

 

Well, i'll give it to you man, I know we joke around a lot back and forth between texts and stuff, but I glad to know you've held yourself together like you have, and are just moving along in life !

 

And as far as Joey, and Damian bringing you here, hey, we all make mistakes !!! hahahaha  Love ya buddy !!!  :drunk:lmao2 :lmao2

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Tuesday - My Family

 

Well I told you all yesterday about my wife and kids yesterday, but I'll expand a bit.

 

My son Spencer will be turning five in about a month. He's already learning to read, as he read to me over the phone recently, and he's a blast to hang out with. I don't get to see him as much as I used to, but every moment I spend with him is fantastic. He's one of those kids that's always talking, which sometimes can be a bit much, but he always has funny things to say. I'll see him in about two weeks and I just can't wait. I haven't seen him since just after New Year's, so this is a little exciting for me.

 

As for the rest of my family. My mom is my mom. Dad my dad and so on. lol. Actually my little sister is pretty amazing too. She struggled through alcoholism and drug addiction, but turned her life around pretty well. The next time I see her she will be receiving her Masters in Social Work. It seems she wants to help others deal with the same struggles she has had. I never really took her for the helpful and caring type, but she has really surprised me with how much she cares to help others. I've never been as proud to be her brother as I am right now.

 

My brother is a "struggling artist." He left a company he was at for years to realize his dream of being a photographer. He now runs his own business and has several national magazine photo credits under his belt. I don't have the guts he does to leave a job just because I wanted something else more, knowing that paying the bills would be tight until his own business picked up.

 

Anyway, I'm getting a little emotional about all this, so I shall speak to you all again later.

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Just catching up, gotta agree with Aftr that was harsh going thru what you did my 1st wife wasn't quite that bad but was still a cheating b**ch. My sister went down that road to but could never turn herself around. I always looked forward to being able to see my son and after it was time for him to go back I would be a grump. Great write up bud! Looking forward to the rest of the week!

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That's awesome about your son Rob !! how far away does he live ?

 

And the rest of your family seems like fighters that never give up, like yourself !!  :2thumbs

 

Nice going so far man !!!

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