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Skiddy

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Skiddy last won the day on November 20 2016

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    Shaun
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    Alberta
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    CmdrSkiddy
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    Jedi Skiddy

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  1. It usually varies by company. Best bet is "in store" or call the customer service number. I work as a LEO, but am not a cop and my experience has been varied with discounts.
  2. Forgot to report back from the bourbon tasting I went to. Jefferson's Ocean, neat story behind the making of it. Yummy and expensive! Bought a bottle. Woodford Reserve Longbranch Angel's envy. Enjoyed them all, no real complaints!
  3. I find if I want to chirp back, it's best to turn off chat for a week. There's usually nothing worth having chat on anyways in randoms.
  4. I just bought that package and all I can say is "Weeeeeeee!" I've only played about 6 frontline games in them, haven't tried randoms. The Lorr is exactly like Blackroan and gpc4 say. And I have had my winky caught. Definitely don't be leading lol I've found the progetto gun handling has better aim time and accuracy, but the Lorr's alpha scares people.
  5. Some basics to work on: Save 10% of every paycheque, put into savings. Snowball method of debt reduction. List all debts, small to large. Minimum payments on everything and dump every extra cent into the smallest. Then roll that amount into the next etc etc. Rewards you by "achieving something" every time you pay off something. Or consider a consolidation loan. One payment works for some people, but make sure you are not paying the minimum. Also remember it took awhile to arrive to this level of debt; it will take time to get out. Glad to hear the wife is trying to find another job, that sounds like a positive! Sounds like she will have to take a low wage job, but have a look at the larger picture and perhaps time in will allow for raises/promotions or experience for another position. Keep grinding dude, you'll get there!
  6. Don't know what to say other than you can only control you. I have no idea where your relationship is at, but it looks like the relationship is struggling from both of your perspectives. If the relationship is struggling, then your finances will not improve. She won't listen and you'll just get more angry. Do what is right for you, she'll either work with you or not - but that's on her. Work on the finances you can control, cut up cards, stop buying coffee etc. Work small first, be disciplined and it'll turn around.
  7. Wifey got me a whiskey tasting for my birthday in a few weeks. I'll report back with the results! My current favs are Forty Creek Copper Barrell, Bulleit and Maker's Mark 46.
  8. Thanks for everything Mykk! Have fun in DHO-X!
  9. Sounds like you got this! Hope it works, good luck!
  10. Third time this week someone has recommended it to me. I think the universe is talking.....
  11. The realtor advice is huge. Interview them, figure out who gets you and make sure they aren't the ones selling the house. Get opinions. Talk to the neighbours. Last house I purchased I banged on doors (without the realtor) and talked to the neighbours to get a feel for the area, crime etc. Usually helpful and they'll tell ya the things the realtor wont.
  12. Keep communicating but try to avoid screaming. Keep trying, it's all you can do. Make firm, clear boundaries and stick to them. The loss of trust is the hardest to overcome, but she needs to be open. If it helps you to see the texts, then they should be shown. Most therapists will say no secrets and you should have open access to everything, email, phone etc. but that is something you need to feel your way through, and you need to be respectful to her for showing. But be prepared to see stuff you don't want to see. Double edged sword there. It's in the past now, can't change it. You can move your relationship forward, but it'll be a rollercoaster of emotions. One day at a time bro.
  13. Rule 1 - Not from friends or family Rule 2 - Get inspections! Rule 3 - Wait and ship around. Take your time and don't be in a hurry. Rule 4 - Stay below budget, make it affordable but don't stretch.
  14. You need to be sure of what you want. Separate everything else and try to objectively look at this situation. Decide what you want and realize that decision is not wrong. If this is a sudden development in your relationship then there is something more happening. If you want to look in her phone, she should hand it over. Trust has been damaged and that is the most important thing in any relationship, even more so in an open relationship. If you said no would she stop? My first instinct is they are already up to something and she's trying to backpedal. Your "best" friend isn't and shouldn't be any part in this. But be true to you; love, kids and best friends will make this very hard for you. Know what you want and stick to it. Edit to add: Nismo also has great advice.
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