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About Hapa_Fodder

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    Deținător Flotei
  • Birthday 05/04/1980

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    Chris
  • Location
    Texas, YEE YEE
  • Number of Kids
    2
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    HapaFodder
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    Hapa
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  1. Hapa_Fodder

    A great Gun giveaway! For our Hunters and Gun nuts! SCAR 20S!

    ONLY 9 HOURS LEFT FOR THIS GIVEAWAY! CLICK THE LINK! It's free!
  2. Hapa_Fodder

    WWII Battle of Midway video on you tube

    Very good video!
  3. It's free, just click el linko https://wn.nr/tWVDPT
  4. Hapa_Fodder

    It can only happen to Joey

    Hope you got everything sorted brother!
  5. Hapa_Fodder

    Anchor's Aweigh

    My intention is to attend the USS Kidd, USS Alabama, USS Texas and USS Lexington events, since they are all within driving distance for me. Anyone that would like to attend that, is outside driving distance let me know, I have no problem boarding you for the event. THIS TIME WE'LL TRY TO SET UP A MEET UP LOCATION SO WE DON'T MISS ANYONE. Most of these are on weekends. Below are the "Eventbrites" for them. In chronological order: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/anchors-away-tour-uss-alabama-tickets-60282544714 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/anchors-away-tour-uss-texas-tickets-60284569771 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/anchors-away-tour-uss-lexington-tickets-60286736251 https://www.eventbrite.com/e/anchors-away-tour-uss-kidd-tickets-60288229718
  6. Hapa_Fodder

    Division 2 Interesting Screen Shots

    @ncooperj the stun gun wins again!
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    Division 2 Interesting Screen Shots

    Post your Screenies here boys! Here are some from me. From celebrating "Peace Day, to the morbid side of the game, to ammo expended (I swear we hit the target a few times), to death ballet.
  8. Hapa_Fodder

    UPLAY Names (AC/FC/Division 1&2)

    Actually better to run in groups if you can, the fights are bigger, the bosses more numerous. Plus working together is good. @DEWEY_96_ and I have been running together daily, and I think we've leveled up 2 levels maybe every day just in a couple hours of play, plus doing the missions and activities. Got some great gear, almost everything I have is pink now. Picked up a gold rifle, but it was NOT so "exotic" Dewey, shaggy and I are central to eastern time zone, I'll try to stay up later Friday/Sat, to run together.
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    UPLAY Names (AC/FC/Division 1&2)

    Hapa-Fodder been running around in Div 2 with Dewey and Shaggy
  10. Yeah, totally get it, I know for a fact how I look at friendships and relationships in general tend to be a bit different than most. I have a lot more close knit group of friends so for me to call someone a friend, its a pretty big deal, at least to me, and I will go to the ends of the earth for them. I wrote in the letter I left him, that I thought the entire thing was a bit much to make the decision to just cut off a long standing friendship, but also that if that's how he wanted it, then so be it. I think oftne times there isn't much you can do to change peoples minds once they are set in their ways. Makes sense.
  11. So some of you know that I retired from the Navy this past summer. I moved to Texas, which I am very happy about and picked a town that my best friend and his family moved to. So he's a good dude, a very good friend and easily someone that I would say people could learn from. But he, as with all of us, has his flaws. He is extremely opinionated, which I definitely don't have a problem with. In fact I prefer people that are passionate about stuff because to me it shows drive. This however sometimes manifests in not so good ways. Especially when alcohol is involved. Some of you also know that I have been through A LOT over the past decade (as I have been in DHO since 2006 I think), well after my divorce I made a conscious effort to remove negativity from my life and have been attempting to surround myself with a good circle of friends. People that will lift you up and support you, not be a drain or drag you down. I say all this because we had planned a camping trip for spring break, this past week. It started out great, I was excited, we drove up on Saturday, set up camp. I got a KOA cause it was his families first time camping together, figured ease in to it. We went to a brewery had a grand ole time, and then sat by the camp fire chatting. We were having a discussion how people have changed the values we hold dear etc. Then started talking about the Navy and how things have changed, how leadership has changed. I talked about the main reason why I retired. That a lot of leadership is out for themselves now vice their people and that a lot of the leadership systems were broken now as a result. Evidently I struck a chord because he started yelling and screaming at me. Now this was only the second time he has done this, so he doesn't have a drinking problem, let me say that. But the first time was at my own retirement dinner, I had three beers over the course of like over 4 hours. People were buying me beer left and right and I was leaving them around the place because I had had a good friend and his woman drive all the way from San Antonio to San Diego to be there. They were staying at my place and they were counting on me driving, which I had no problem with. At a gathering like that I don't care to drink much, cause I want to remember the people. Well he was drunk, claiming I was drunk and couldn't drive. And made a huge scene in front of all my friends, thankfully my family had departed prior to that, so they didn't see that. But it was EXTREMELY embarrassing. And quite frankly made me feel belittled and disrespected. But I let him do his thing and walked away, because, he was drunk, and we were close friends, I would shrug it off. I say close friends BTW, I mean I had a better relationship with him than I do my ACTUAL brother. So when he was screaming at me at the camp site, with his kids asleep in the tent right next to us, I did what I had done to everyone that has ever acted in a negative fashion to me in the past decade. I packed up and I left and went home, because quite frankly I didn't want to be around that. I have fought through A LOT of depression, anxiety, loneliness, especially after my wife cheated on me. I went to therapy for almost 2 years after that to realize that my thought process to remove negativity from my life led me to make the choice to leave her and get a divorce. And I still to this day feel horrible for what I did to make the marriage fail, I've always been told it wasn't my fault, however, you still tend to feel this way regardless. I have also worked EXTREMELY hard to surround myself with people that will lift me up, support me, and drive me to be a better person. As I hope they would also want from me. So I figured that it would be another case of "just, cool off and continue on," but yesterday when he and his family returned from the camping trip he texted me and told me that they would not be home during a certain time and all my stuff would be in the garage. I assumed that this just meant anything I left at the camping site. So because I know he doesn't care to talk feelings over or anything like that, as many of us men don't, I wrote him a letter (yes I know that's like a HS thing), I told him everything, why I left, how angry it made me to have him yell at me like that again, and that it was best that I just left, instead of trying to escalate things. When I showed up he had put literally everything and anything I had at his house in the garage. Some items which I had purposely left there to give him. People often times misinterpret my being a passionate person for anger or aggression, those that typically have known me for some time, understand the difference, because honestly, only a few people have honestly seen me angry in the past decade. So I rant all this to ask, WTF did I do wrong? How the eff could someone throw away a friendship over something like this? Perhaps he saw things differently? How could someone talk about valuing someones friendship to just as soon throw it away? I find that the older I get the more and more I tend to value my friendships but the more and more I seem to be let down by people. And the more and more I feel the necessity to pull inward and become a hermit. I mean, I am seriously contemplating buying land in the mountains somewhere and just closing off to the outside world... (lets be honest, I would need internet for gaming). I actually feel right now, as I did the day I told the ex I wanted a divorce....
  12. Hapa_Fodder

    WG meet up on the USS Texas!

    If you're not a member of our FB group apply! Can see the pictures I took! It was a good day! @Vinsent tried to msg you on FB to get your phone number but guess you didn't get it. Sorry we missed you! https://www.facebook.com/groups/530445163959473/
  13. Hapa_Fodder

    Update 0.8.1

    I CAN SPEND MY BILLION CREDITS ON COMBAT SIGNALS NOW!!!! Really all I care bout.... as for the flooding dmg, you barely if ever get torp hits anymore anyways so meh...
  14. Hapa_Fodder

    The levels of frustration......

    I mean, could be worse.... you could do 265000 dmg and then lose....
  15. Hapa_Fodder

    Finally - Maybe

    I'm gonna be spending all afternoon burning my credits lol
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